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Mormons By The Numbers · Women in the Mormon Church · A Spoke of the Semi-Annual Report · October 2026
Mormon Women, By the Numbers.
If Mormon women are oppressed, nobody told the data. Pew’s new gender tables, a 16,000-person marriage study and an 11-country report put the claim to four tests — and it fails all four. Then the one thing the critics get right.
The Short Answer
Oppression has a definition. Test it.
Mormon women — members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, called Latter-day Saints throughout — are the subject of a two-year run of films, series and headlines built on one idea: that they are oppressed. Oppression is not a mood; it is a condition with recognizable features. Oppressed women do not get a say in the arrangements that govern them. They are kept from education, from voting, from public roles. They are unhappy, and their marriages run on one person’s power. And they cannot leave. Every one of those features can be measured, and researchers have measured each of them for Latter-day Saint women.
The results: Mormon women chose the arrangement outsiders object to — 90% opposed women’s ordination when Pew asked, more than the men did — and they hold less traditional views on gender roles than Mormon men. They out-educate the men (40% with a bachelor’s degree vs. 34%), have voted since 1870, lead three church-wide organizations, and 30,000 of them are serving missions. They report the highest rate of being “very happy” of any religious group’s women, the best-measured marriages in the data, and more joint decision-making than women in nominally religious couples. And they can leave: among women raised in the faith, 54% remain — and only 49% of those aged 18 to 49, against 66% of women 50 and older. That last number is the concession, and in this frame it is also the proof: the door is open, women use it, and the ones who stay are the most devout people in the building.
Key Takeaways
Four tests, nine numbers.
- Test 1 — a say. 90% of Mormon women opposed ordaining women (men: 84%; the most committed: 95%). The arrangement is the women’s choice. Verified
- Test 1 — a say. Women are less traditional than the men: 33% say a mother should be the parent at home vs. 50% of men — Pew’s one statistically significant gender gap; 66% vs. 56% call more women in the workforce a change for the better. Verified
- Test 2 — kept down. 40% of Latter-day Saint women hold a bachelor’s degree, up from 25% in 2007 and now ahead of the men (34%). Latter-day Saint women voted in 1870. 30,000+ are on missions. Verified Documented
- Test 3 — miserable. 35% “very happy,” highest of any religious group’s women; 77% of mothers and 68% of single women feel deep spiritual peace weekly; 69% rate family life excellent or very good, above every other Christian tradition. Public claim Verified
- Test 3 — miserable. In a 16,116-person study, highly religious Latter-day Saints reported less contempt and criticism, more emotional connection, and higher satisfaction — on a scale that includes equality — than devout Catholics and Protestants. Verified
- Test 3 — miserable. Across 11 countries, women in highly religious couples report more joint decision-making than women in nominal couples and the highest relationship quality of any group. Verified
- Test 4 — can’t leave. No overall gender gap in retention (54% women, 55% men). Women 18–49: 49%. Women 50+: 66%. The exit is open and the young use it. Verified
- Who stays. Women out-pray, out-attend and out-believe Mormon men on every measure Pew publishes — 78% vs. 67% say religion is very important. Verified
- What nobody has measured. No representative, faith-specific survey of marital decision-making exists newer than the 1980s, and intimate-partner violence is unmeasured at the faith level. This article claims nothing on either. Data gap
The Dashboard
Mormon women, in eight numbers.
Opposed ordaining women — more than men at 84%
(Pew 2011)
Hold a bachelor’s degree, up from 25% in 2007 — now ahead of men (34%)
(Pew 2023–24)
“Very happy” — highest of any religious group’s women
(BYU analysis of Pew data)
Say the mother should be the parent at home — vs. 50% of men
(Pew 2023–24)
Say religion is very important — vs. 67% of Mormon men
(Pew 2023–24)
Of married members have a same-faith spouse
(Pew 2023–24)
Women serving missions — the largest cohort ever
(Church-reported, Sept 2026)
Retention among women raised in the faith: ages 18–49 vs. 50+
(Pew 2023–24)
Pew’s 2023–24 Religious Landscape Study interviewed 565 Latter-day Saints, 308 of them women (margin of error ±7.5 points for women, ±9.7 for men). Read the margins honestly: a women-versus-men gap needs roughly 12 points to be individually significant, and Pew flags only the stay-at-home-mother item as significant. The consistent direction across eighteen items is the finding.
The oppression claim, at full strength
First, the strongest version of the case against.
The Washington Post called 2024 “the Year of the Mormon Woman,” and the year’s two biggest portrayals — a horror film about sister missionaries and a reality series about influencer wives — ran on the same premise. Behind them stand serious critics with real data, and they go first. Jana Riess and political scientist Benjamin Knoll have surveyed current and former members for a decade: the 2016 Next Mormons Survey of 1,156 members and 540 former members, and a forthcoming Oxford book, Leaving Mormonism. Their core finding is generational. In that survey, 59% of Millennial members agreed that women not holding the priesthood “sometimes bothers me,” against 48% of Gen X and 25% of members over 55; 61% of Millennials said women do not have enough say in the church, against fewer than a third of older members. Public claim
- Boomers and older (55+)25%
- Gen X48%
- Millennials59%
Next Mormons Survey (Riess & Knoll, 2016; 1,156 current members), as published in The Next Mormons (Oxford, 2019). Public claim
Pew’s 2026 report shows where that discontent is going. Retention has no overall gender gap — 55% of men and 54% of women raised Latter-day Saint still identify — but among women, age cuts hard: 66% of those 50 and older remain, against 49% of those 18 to 49. Men barely move (57% vs. 54%). Verified Ryan Burge’s 2025 Spiritual Seismology Survey (100,741 adults, 1,177 raised in the faith) puts Gen Z women raised in the church at roughly 4 in 10 remaining. Public claim
“Women are now more likely to leave than men, especially if they’re younger.”
Jana Riess, Religion News Service, August 4, 2026
Riess’s explanation runs to three words — politics, purity culture, powerlessness — and the historians give the third one texture. Caroline Kline of Claremont Graduate University traces how church language moved from male “headship” with final decision-making authority, still explicit in the early 1970s, to “preside” redefined as leading family worship and ensuring mutual decisions, while the word itself never went away. She calls the result “a double discourse of male headship and marital egalitarianism.” Documented Writers at Exponent II add the methodological objection this article has to meet: averages on self-reported happiness do not prove the institution produces happiness for every woman, and women who are not thriving may already have left the sample. Contested
Two more entries for this column, from the church’s own researchers. Sherrie Mills Johnson’s 2004 comparison of two national Latter-day Saint samples with the National Survey of Families and Households found Latter-day Saint women lower in depression and similar in life satisfaction — and lower in self-esteem. Documented And the Brigham Young University (BYU) authors of the most favorable analysis of Pew’s data concede that 11% of Latter-day Saint women say they are “not too happy” and 9% rate their family lives fair or poor. Documented All of this is real. Now the four tests.
Test one · A say
Oppressed women don’t get a say. These women chose the arrangement.
Only men are ordained to the priesthood in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints; women therefore do not serve as bishops, elders or apostles. If that arrangement were imposed on unwilling women, the women would oppose it more than the men. The record runs the other way. In Pew’s dedicated survey of Mormons, 87% opposed ordaining women — and women were more opposed than men, 90% to 84%. Among the most religiously committed, 95% opposed; even among the least committed, 69% did. Verified
The 2015 Mormon Gender Issues Survey, assembled by church-affiliated academics with about 50,000 self-selected respondents, found 72% opposed when asked directly — and 77% willing to support ordination if the prophet announced it (men 86%, women 73%). It is a convenience sample and is labeled as such. Public claim Even self-identified Mormon feminists are mostly in the pews: a Dialogue survey of 1,862 found most believing and engaged in their congregations, 84% expecting women to hold the priesthood someday, and 12% having participated in Ordain Women. Public claim
- Highest religious commitment95%
- Mormon women90%
- All Mormons87%
- Mormon men84%
- Lowest religious commitment69%
Pew Research Center, “Mormons in America” (2011–12), as reported in Pew short reads (Oct. 2013, Mar. 2014).
The same pattern holds on the home. In Pew’s 2011 survey, 58% of Mormons preferred a marriage in which the husband provides and the wife runs the home — nearly double the national 30% — and Mormon men and women held that view in equal measure, with no difference by age and the highest support among college graduates (71%). Verified By 2023–24, the women had moved further than the men. Sixty-six percent of Latter-day Saint women call more women in the workforce a change for the better (men: 56%). Asked whether children are better off with a parent at home, 86% of men said yes against 70% of women; asked which parent, 50% of men said the mother, against 33% of women — the one gender difference Pew’s report singles out as statistically significant. Twenty-seven percent of women, nearly double the men’s 14%, say children do just as well when both parents work. Verified Women who were being told what to think would echo the men. These women are to the men’s left on every gender question Pew asked.
“I am not oppressed. But I do think more women should speak at General Conference.”
Rachel Parcell, Latter-day Saint influencer, to Mormonism Explained
A say in the arrangement is not the same as a microphone, and here the numbers side with her. At the October 2026 General Conference, women gave 3 of 37 talks (8%) and offered at least 2 of the 8 prayers. Verified Women did not pray in General Conference at all until April 2013; the three-women-per-conference norm dates to 2018; secondary tallies put women at roughly 7% of talks over 30 years and about 10% of speaking time since 2018 — flat, not rising — and the discontinuation of the Saturday evening sessions reduced the total hours women teach the whole church. Public claim The mechanism is structural rather than a muzzle: nine women hold general-officer callings against more than a hundred men eligible to speak. That explains the ratio. It does not make the pews feel it differently, which is Parcell’s point — and the series will publish its own conference-by-conference count, 1971 to present, as the verified series.
- Children better off if the mother stays home — men50%
- Children better off if the mother stays home — women33%
- More women in the workforce is a change for the better — men56%
- More women in the workforce is a change for the better — women66%
- Children just as well off when both parents work — men14%
- Children just as well off when both parents work — women27%
Pew Research Center, “Tradition and Change Among Latter-day Saints in the U.S.,” Appendix: detailed tables (Sept. 2026). The stay-at-home-mother gap is the one Pew flags as statistically significant.
What the doctrine says, and how it changed
The church’s own instruction has moved toward the women. The 1995 proclamation on the family assigns fathers to “preside” and mothers primary responsibility for nurture, then binds both to “help one another as equal partners.” A 2013 Ensign article by Valerie Hudson and Richard Miller states that presiding carries no right of final say — equal counsel requires equal consent. In 2019, the temple ceremony was changed so that women covenant directly to God rather than to “hearken” to their husbands, and women became official witnesses at baptisms and sealings. Kline’s point stands alongside this: the word “preside” was retained and even added to the sealing ceremony the same year. Both are true. Documented
“A helpmeet results in an absolute equal partnership between a husband and a wife.”
Hudson & Miller, “Equal Partnership in Marriage,” Ensign, April 2013
Test two · Kept down
Oppressed women get kept down. These women out-educate the men.
Oppression leaves a trail in the education statistics, and this trail points the wrong way. Latter-day Saint women with a bachelor’s degree rose from 25% in 2007 to 40% in 2023–24, overtaking Latter-day Saint men, who held steady at roughly a third; the church-wide rate rose from 29% to 36%, and the women drove it. Verified Among Latter-day Saints, more education is associated with more religiousness — the reverse of the national pattern — so the most educated women in the church are also its most observant. Verified
- Women, 200725%
- Women, 2023–2440%
- Men, 2023–2434%
- All Latter-day Saints, 2023–2436%
Pew Research Center, “Tradition and Change Among Latter-day Saints in the U.S.” (Sept. 2026). Among Latter-day Saints, more education is associated with more religiousness — the reverse of the national pattern.
The history runs the same direction. The Relief Society, founded in Nauvoo in 1842, is one of the oldest continuously operating women’s organizations in the world. Utah Territory granted women the vote in 1870, and Latter-day Saint women cast ballots in Salt Lake City that February — fifty years before the 19th Amendment. Today women preside over the Relief Society, the Young Women and the Primary; they speak and pray in every congregational meeting and address the worldwide General Conference; they perform temple ordinances for women; and since 2019 they serve as official witnesses at baptisms and sealings. Documented After the church lowered the missionary age for women to 19 in 2012, the number serving nearly tripled; after a further change to 18 in 2025, the church reported more than 90,000 missionaries in September 2026, including more than 30,000 women — the largest cohort of sister missionaries in its history. Documented (church-reported) And 74% of Latter-day Saint women volunteered in the past year, against 41% of all U.S. adults. Verified
- 201449%
- 2023–2461%
- All U.S. adults, 2023–2473%
Pew Religious Landscape Studies, 2014 and 2023–24.
Milestones, year by year
1842
Relief Society founded in Nauvoo — one of the oldest continuously operating women’s organizations in the world.
1870
Utah Territory grants women the vote; Latter-day Saint women cast ballots in Salt Lake City that February, 50 years before the 19th Amendment.
1973
Church magazine still describes the “patriarchal order” and male decision-making authority in the home (Kline).
1995
“The Family: A Proclamation to the World” — fathers preside, mothers nurture, both “equal partners.”
2012–13
Mission age for women lowered to 19; women’s mission service nearly triples. Ordain Women founded.
2019
Temple covenant changed — women covenant directly to God; women serve as official witnesses.
2025–26
Mission age for women lowered to 18; 30,000+ sister missionaries serving; Pew publishes its first dedicated Latter-day Saint study since 2011.
Test three · Miserable
Oppressed women are miserable. These are among the happiest women in America.
Pew’s 2023–24 landscape study asked Americans to rate their happiness, their family lives and how often they feel a deep sense of spiritual peace. BYU researchers Jenet Erickson, Justin Dyer and Barbara Morgan Gardner broke those answers out by religion and gender in Research Report 25-01, “U.S. Latter-day Saint Women’s Well-being and Religiosity.” Their figures, published in their own summary of the report: Latter-day Saint women had the highest rate of any religious group’s women for being “very happy,” 35%; 77% of Latter-day Saint mothers and 68% of single Latter-day Saint women feel a deep sense of spiritual peace and well-being at least weekly; only 6% of single women seldom or never do; 5% of married Latter-day Saint women said they were “not too happy,” lower than other groups; and Latter-day Saint women and mothers had the highest shares rating their family lives “excellent,” 27% and 30%. The mechanism they identify is religiosity itself — the same women who pray and attend at the highest rates report the highest well-being. Public claim
“Latter-day Saint women rise to the top in measures of well-being…”
Erickson, Dyer & Gardner, Deseret News, April 24, 2025
- Mothers: deep spiritual peace and well-being, at least weekly77%
- Muslim mothers, next highest75%
- Single women: deep spiritual peace, at least weekly68%
- “Very happy” — highest of any religious group’s women35%
- “Very happy” — wives who say religion is very important to their husband42%
- “Not too happy” — all Latter-day Saint women (authors’ concession)11%
- “Not too happy” — married Latter-day Saint women5%
Erickson, Dyer & Gardner, BYU Family Foundations Research Report 25-01, via the authors’ published summary (Deseret News, Apr. 2025). Public claim
- Hindu73%
- Jewish71%
- Latter-day Saint69%
- Catholic63%
- Evangelical Protestant62%
- All U.S. adults59%
- Religiously unaffiliated54%
Pew Research Center, “Latter-day Saints: Happy in their family lives, traditional in gender roles” (Sept. 2026). Verified
The marriages, measured
Oppression inside a marriage is a claim about power, and there is a body of research that measures exactly that. The largest Latter-day Saint-specific study is Dean Busby and David Dollahite’s analysis in BYU Studies Quarterly 59:1 (2020), drawing on the RELATE questionnaire: 16,116 respondents in serious relationships, 36% of them Latter-day Saint, with 5,432 highly religious members, compared against Catholics, Protestants and the unaffiliated while controlling for education and race. Highly religious Latter-day Saints scored significantly lower on negative communication — a partner’s criticism, contempt and defensiveness — and significantly higher on emotional connection, on relationship stability, and on a seven-item satisfaction scale that explicitly includes satisfaction with “the equality in the relationship.” The mechanism the authors identify is doctrinal: temple marriage requires a standard of personal conduct that ties religious worship directly to how a person treats a spouse. The study’s limits travel with it — RELATE users are people seeking relationship feedback, not a random sample — and so does its sharpest concession: Latter-day Saints who are not highly religious scored worse than other low-religiosity groups on the same measures. Verified
“…value marriage significantly more than even the highly religious members of other denominations.”
Busby & Dollahite, BYU Studies Quarterly 59:1 (2020), on Latter-day Saint relational attitudes
The best data on who decides is cross-tradition. “The Ties That Bind” (Institute for Family Studies and the Wheatley Institute, 2019) analyzed couples in eleven countries using the World Values Survey and the Global Family and Gender Survey. Women in highly religious couples reported more joint decision-making than women in less or mixed-religious couples; highly religious couples reported the highest relationship quality and sexual satisfaction, with women about 50% more likely to be strongly satisfied sexually; and in the report’s J-curve, the women reporting the highest relationship quality of all were traditionalists in highly religious relationships. Verified In the report’s table of religious traditions, Latter-day Saints posted the highest relationship-quality score of any group — 17.24 against 16.36 for Protestants. Public claim
“…women in highly religious relationships, especially traditionalists, report the highest levels of relationship quality.”
The Ties That Bind, World Family Map 2019, executive summary
Samuel Perry’s 2016 study in the Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion explains why the oppression reading misfires on these households. In a national sample, traditional gender ideology does lower relationship satisfaction — but only among the less religious. Among highly religious couples the penalty disappears, and the moderating effect is significant for women specifically. Public claim The older record agrees: Lehrer and Chiswick’s 1993 analysis in Demography found member-to-member couples had the lowest five-year divorce rate of any pairing studied, 13%, while members married to non-members had the highest, 40%. Public claim General Social Survey data compiled in the 1980s put married Latter-day Saints at 66% “very happy” in marriage, against 65% of Protestants and Catholics and 57% of the non-religious, with Latter-day Saint women reporting more marital happiness than other women. Documented
- Spouse is of the same faith87%
- Own beliefs very similar to spouse’s — Latter-day Saints77%
- Own beliefs very similar to spouse’s — all married U.S. adults51%
- Religion very important in spouse’s life — Latter-day Saints73%
- Religion very important in spouse’s life — all married U.S. adults36%
- Talk about religion with spouse daily — Latter-day Saints37%
- Talk about religion with spouse daily — all married U.S. adults16%
Pew Research Center, “Latter-day Saints: Happy in their family lives, traditional in gender roles” (Sept. 2026). Value alignment is the mechanism the cross-national research identifies most strongly.
- Latter-day Saint married to a Latter-day Saint13%
- Latter-day Saint married to a non-member40%
Reported via secondary coverage of Demography (1993). Public claim
- Latter-day Saints17.24
- Protestants16.36
From the report’s denominational table, reported via secondary coverage. Public claim
Harvard’s Global Flourishing Study, the largest instrument in this series, points the same way on family: U.S. Latter-day Saints reported the highest rates in that study of having felt loved by their mother (94%) and father (90%) growing up. The nuance travels with the citation, as it does on every page of this series: in the study’s worldwide data, Latter-day Saints rank highest on meaning and purpose but notably weaker on the combined mental-and-physical- health domain. Verified
The depression question
The claim that Mormon women are unusually depressed dates to a 1979 Salt Lake television special and gained national life when Express Scripts ranked Utah first in antidepressant use in 2001 and again in 2007. The ranking is real. It is also a measure of a state in which roughly 70% of residents were on church rolls and far fewer were active — and Maine and Oregon posted comparably high use with no comparable religious story. Under this series’ rules, a Utah statistic is a Utah statistic: never upgraded to a claim about the faith, in either direction. Utah proxy The studies that measured Latter-day Saint women directly — Spendlove, West and Stanish (1984, Beck Depression Inventory, Salt Lake Valley), Williams (1999, Latter-day Saint vs. Protestant women), Johnson (2004, national samples) — found no difference or lower depression, with one finding lower self-esteem; Daniel Judd’s literature reviews spanning 1923 to 2022 report no standardized-measure study linking Latter-day Saint belief or practice to higher depression. Documented Nearly all of this body is BYU-affiliated, and the honest statement is the narrow one: the claim is contradicted by every direct measurement on record, and none of those measurements is recent or large.
Data gap, stated.
Test four · Can’t leave
Oppressed women can’t leave. These women can — and half the young ones do.
The last test is the one the critics’ own data settles. Oppression requires a locked door; the Latter-day Saint door is measurably open. Among women raised in the faith, 54% still identify as adults — the same as men (55%). Among women 18 to 49 it is 49%, against 66% for women 50 and older, while men hold at 54% and 57%. Verified Pew’s sentence: “This age difference is largely driven by women.” Burge’s figure for Gen Z women is roughly 4 in 10. Public claim This is the number the critics lead with, and they should. In an oppression frame it also does something else: it establishes that the women who remain are there by a choice half their peers declined to make.
- Women, 50 and older [55.9–74.0]66%
- Men, 50 and older [46.9–67.3]57%
- Men, 18–49 [43.8–63.4]54%
- Women, 18–49 [40.7–56.9]49%
Pew Research Center, “Tradition and Change Among Latter-day Saints in the U.S.” (Sept. 22, 2026), retention by gender and age. Pew: “This age difference is largely driven by women.”
Who are the ones who stay? On every religiousness measure Pew publishes, Latter-day Saint women lead the men: religion very important, 78% to 67%; daily prayer, 78% to 69%; weekly in-person attendance, 71% to 67%; absolute certainty in God, 80% to 73%; belief in something spiritual beyond the natural world, 96% to 91%. Verified Pew’s 2011 survey found the same gender gap in commitment. This is not a population being held in place. It is the most engaged half of the membership, and it is engaged by choice.
- Religion very important — women78%
- Religion very important — men67%
- Pray daily — women78%
- Pray daily — men69%
- Attend in person weekly or more — women71%
- Attend in person weekly or more — men67%
- Absolutely certain God exists — women80%
- Absolutely certain God exists — men73%
Pew Research Center, “Tradition and Change Among Latter-day Saints in the U.S.,” Appendix: detailed tables. Women n=308 (±7.5), men n=253 (±9.7): individual gaps are directional; the consistent direction across all items is the finding.
And the women who stay are diverging from the men while out-praying them. Fifty-three percent of Latter-day Saint women say homosexuality should be accepted by society, against 41% of men; women are slightly less Republican (70% vs. 77%) and slightly less likely to say churches protect morality (89% vs. 95%). Verified That combination — more devout, less traditional — is the mechanism behind §01. The young women leaving are not leaving the devotion behind. They are diverging from the men on gender and social questions, and the church’s gender arrangements are where those two lines cross. The critics are right about where this is heading, and the church’s own data analysts concede the trend.
- Homosexuality should be accepted by society — women53%
- Homosexuality should be accepted by society — men41%
- Abortion legal in all or most cases — women34%
- Abortion legal in all or most cases — men29%
- Republican or lean Republican — women70%
- Republican or lean Republican — men77%
Pew Research Center, detailed tables (Sept. 2026). Directional except where noted.
The rules, plainly
What is actually expected of a Mormon woman — and what isn’t.
Search engines ask this bluntly — “rules for Mormon women,” “Mormon women head covering,” “can Mormon women vote” — so here is the plain record. The church’s standards of conduct apply to women and men alike: the Word of Wisdom (no alcohol, tobacco, coffee or tea), chastity outside marriage, Sabbath observance, tithing and modest dress. There are no women-only dress rules and no head coverings in daily life or in worship; inside temples, both men and women wear white. Women vote, work, hold office and earn degrees without any church restriction. Congregations are not sex-segregated; men and women sit together in worship, and only the Sunday second-hour classes meet by organization. The single structural difference is ordination: women are not ordained to the priesthood, so they do not serve as bishops, elders or apostles. Documented
On doctrine: the church teaches that women and men are equal before God and that both are necessary for exaltation; it affirms belief in a Heavenly Mother alongside Heavenly Father; it honors Eve as a wise and necessary agent rather than the author of a fall; and since 1995 it has described husbands and wives as equal partners. The Book of Mormon itself names only a handful of women — Sariah, Abish and Isabel among them — and Latter-day Saint teaching about women draws far more on later revelation and on the Relief Society than on that text. Documented
Two subjects belong to other pages on this site. Reality television’s version of Mormon women is examined, scene by scene, in our “Secret Lives of Mormon Wives” fact-check, and the portrayal of sister missionaries in the film Heretic on our Heretic page. Allegations of abuse involving the church are reported in our abuse coverage, where survivor testimony is treated on its own terms and the outcomes data on this page is never used as a counterweight.
The verdict
Four tests. Four misses. That isn’t oppression.
If Mormon women are oppressed, nobody told the data
Oppressed women don’t get a say; these women chose the arrangement outsiders object to, and hold views to the left of their own men. Oppressed women get kept down; these women out-educate the men, have voted since 1870, lead three church-wide organizations and are serving missions 30,000 strong. Oppressed women are miserable; these are among the happiest women in America, with the best-measured marriages in the data — more joint decisions, more equality, less contempt. Oppressed women can’t leave; these women can, half the young ones do, and the ones who stay are the most devout people in the building. Four tests. Four misses. That isn’t oppression. It’s empowerment — and the ones who disagree are free to walk out the front door.
That exit is the real story, and the critics are right about it. The youngest Latter-day Saint women are leaving faster than any other segment of the church, and the data says why: they are more devout than the men and less traditional than the men, and the church’s gender arrangements are where those lines cross. These are averages, not guarantees; correlations, not proof; two of the most important questions have never been measured at the faith level. Every limit is in the ledger below. So is every number.
Frequently asked questions
Women in the Mormon Church: straight answers.
Are Mormon women oppressed?
What is the role of women in the Mormon Church?
Are Mormon women submissive to their husbands?
Are Mormon women allowed to work outside the home?
Can women hold the priesthood or be bishops in the Mormon Church?
Do Mormon women want the priesthood?
Are Mormon women happy?
Are Mormon women more depressed than other women?
What are the rules for Mormon women?
Do Mormon women wear head coverings?
Can Mormon women vote?
Why are young Mormon women leaving the church?
What do Mormons believe about women?
What are Mormon women like, statistically?
Can Mormon women preach or speak in church?
Is “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives” an accurate picture of Mormon women?
Is there feminism in Mormonism?
What should I know about dating a Mormon woman?
What does the Book of Mormon say about women?
Where does this article’s data come from, and what isn’t measured?
Sources & data ledger
Every number, every source.
- Pew Research Center, “Tradition and Change Among Latter-day Saints in the U.S.” (Evans & Leppert, Sept. 22, 2026; doi 10.58094/a124-c097), incl. family-life chapter, retention chapter and detailed tables (PDF, pp. 46–63). Verified
- Pew Research Center, “Mormons in America” (2011–12); ordination short read (2013); role-of-women short read (2014); family-life chapter. Verified
- Busby & Dollahite, “The Strengths and Challenges of Contemporary Marriages of Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints,” BYU Studies Quarterly 59:1 (2020); RELATE n=16,116. Verified
- Institute for Family Studies / Wheatley Institute, “The Ties That Bind: Is Faith a Global Force for Good or Ill in the Family?” (World Family Map 2019). Executive summary Verified; denominational score table Public claim.
- Perry, “For Better or for Worse? Gender Ideology, Religious Commitment, and Relationship Quality,” Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion (2016). Public claim
- Lehrer & Chiswick, “Religion as a Determinant of Marital Stability,” Demography 30:3 (1993). Public claim
- Erickson, Dyer & Gardner, BYU Family Foundations Research Report 25-01; authors’ summary, Deseret News, Apr. 24, 2025; Gardner, Deseret News, Aug. 7, 2026. Public claim
- Riess & Knoll, Next Mormons Survey (2016) and The Next Mormons (Oxford, 2019); Riess, RNS, Aug. 4, 2026 and Aug. 13, 2026; Burge, 2025 Spiritual Seismology Survey (via RNS). Public claim
- Kline, “Latter-day Saints Have Moved Toward Equality in Marriage — But Not Church,” The Conversation / Religion Unplugged (2021–22). Documented
- Hudson & Miller, “Equal Partnership in Marriage,” Ensign, April 2013; “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” (1995). Documented
- Mormon Gender Issues Survey (2015), via Salt Lake Tribune and RNS; convenience sample. Public claim
- Dialogue, survey of 1,862 Mormon feminists. Public claim
- Depression literature: Spendlove, West & Stanish, Social Science & Medicine 18 (1984); Williams (1999); Johnson (2004); Judd reviews (1998; Dyer, Judd, Gale & Finlinson, Religions 2023); Deseret News on Utah antidepressant use (2006). Documented Utah proxy
- General Social Survey figures via Encyclopedia of Mormonism, “Social Characteristics”. Documented
- Harvard Global Flourishing Study (Harvard / Baylor / Gallup), U.S. felt-loved rates via Dyer, Deseret News (May 2026); global health-axis nuance carried. Verified
- Church-reported: 90,000+ missionaries incl. 30,000+ women (Church Newsroom, Sept. 2026); Relief Society founding (1842); 2019 temple and witness policy changes. Documented
- Steelman sources: Exponent II (Aug. 2026). Contested
Next update: Spring 2027 General Conference.
Averages are not guarantees; correlations are not proof; every limit is stated above.